Cover image: © Mike Bas for Eurocircle
Meeting people in the city can be daunting, especially when options are often limited to an app or a poorly lit bar with a sticky flooring. But, if you’re new to the New York area or even to the country, that task can feel even more isolating in an already unfamiliar place.
Last Tuesday night, July 25th, the congested summer air of the city decided to take a break and cool the evening for Eurocircle’s Annual White Party on the rooftop of Gansevoort Park Rooftop.
People gathered the venue dressed head-to-toe in all white attire, including a wide range of creative accessories. From fedoras, fascinators, and even fluorescent lights, partygoers sported some really outrageous were decorated and fully committed to the festivities.
Eurocircle, founded in 1999, is a global community for individuals to network and meet up with Europeans, expats, and other travelers in their city. Groups currently reside in 48 major cities around the world, and their circle is continuously growing. Annual trips are organized for members, as well as wine tastings, concerts, and other exciting excursions. Currently, they are planning a trip to Australia and New Zealand later this year.
“It’s all about having fun…Come with us and mingle for a night with Europeans and Europhiles,” the Eurocircle website states. “Moving in the right circles!”
Despite the allure of the evening, and the exclusivity of being apart of “a free for members only” event, there was a crowded sense of being constantly observed, of people guessing ethnicities and backgrounds. Even though Eurocircle offers an opportunity to meet people in a new environment, there is an apparent awareness that European people are the obsession amongst everyone’s narrative. If you aren’t European you love European people, is the understanding. Additionally, even though anyone can become a member of Eurocircle, there is a price tag for certain events.
Admittedly, I am neither European nor am I particular about associating within specific circles, so the recognition that this party was not meant for me, a 26-year-old graduate student from California, is very apparent. Both the bar and the outdoor spaces were overly compacted with people ranging from their late thirties and older, perhaps a bracket of people that is slightly out of reach in relatability to my preferred dollar beers and interpretive millennial dance moves. The ambience was hard to appreciate when trying to get past the poorly executed bar. The drink special for the night was $10 Absolute drinks, but these were difficult to acquire unless you were willing to wait.
I took my $15 cocktail, in a deceiving four ounce glass, out to the terrace. I enjoyed the views of the lights overlooking Park Avenue and appreciated the structure of the evening, regardless of being squished up against a bench that already had too many people. I watched the newest members meandering to different countries around the bar until they found new friends they were comfortable connecting with.
Meeting people as an adult is difficult, and having outlets to do so is relieving in a city that can be overwhelming for anyone. If you are interested in connecting with Europeans all over the world and participating in the events that are available, check out Eurocircle, and become a member for free.